How does one succeed in life?

Procrastinates a lot.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why is it difficult to get a job?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Why is digital marketing important?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

That's it for today.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

I see lots of pictures of women who have huge clits are they real or what?

Ask yourself:

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What kind of book did you write after turning 55?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

What I need from you?

Have you ever dealt with a Christian narcissist?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hangs out with loser friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What do dreams about dead people mean?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why do ugly men flirt with girls that are really hot?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why is dating so frustrating and difficult for a guy?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Why do men cheat on their wives with someone extremely unattractive?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Making more friends is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.